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Peggy menar att orden kan betyda allt

Av Ebba Dozokera - 13 januari 2011 11:37

Läkarbesöket för 32 år sedan då hon fick diagnosen, charcot-marie-tooth, en muskelsjukdom som drabbar armar och ben, från armbågar och knän neråt, var oförglömlig. Benen hade blivit tunga och det var jobbigt att gå. Peggy ville veta vad det berodde på.

Efter en nervös stund i väntrummet blev hon inkallad till en neurolog, som innan han hunnit hälsa, säger: ”Du går som Kalle Anka, lider av en muskelsjukdom som inte går att bota.”

– Jag tystnade som om jag fått ett slag i ansiktet. Han såg min reaktion och fortsatte: ”Men du dör inte av det, behöver nog inte rullstol heller, men du kommer att gå så här tills du dör”, varpå han stegade iväg över golvet för att visa.

– Jag kände mig så förnedrad och kränkt.

Mycket illa till mods lämnade Peggy Länssjukhuset i Halmstad, åkte hem till familjen i Furet och försökte förstå vad hon nyss hade upplevt.

– Den stunden gav mej insikten i hur viktigt ett första möte är. Det sitter kvar, och man får aldrig ett nytt försök att göra ett första intryck.

Sedan den dagen har ord och bemötande blivit oerhört betydelsefulla i hennes liv. Såväl i yrket som i privatlivet.

I sitt arbete inom äldrevården där hon varit i snart 20 år har hon upplevt fantastiska möten. Från att tillåtas komma in och torka av diskbänken till att få duscha personen är stort. Man har vunnit hela personens tillit. Men, menar Peggy, det förutsätter att man möter personen med hänsyn, tålamod och respekt för deras integritet. Gamla och sjuka är redan i underläge och i beroendeställning.

– En vänlig röst och vänliga händer är så lite för oss men betyder så mycket för dem. Ord är dessutom gratis.

En dement man som tappat delar av sin livskvalitet blir så glad när han med lite uppmuntrande ord upptäcker att han kan knäppa knapparna i sin skjorta eller bädda sin egen säng. Att han kan göra sådant han alltid gjort tidigare ger livskvalitet.

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Av Ebba Dozokera - 13 januari 2011 11:39

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